Remember, if you fit in with everyone and let your conscious and subconscious mind wallow in that aspect, you will be no different than the ones around you. Eventually, you will get lost in the crowd and the happenings that occur in it every other day.
It is said, that it takes absolutely nothing to join the crowd, but it takes everything to stand alone.
Therefore, to stand out and not fit in requires you to not only make the choice to do so, but carry with courage, determination, commitment and focus.
This is when you begin to see every obstacle as a challenge to overcome and every challenge as an opportunity to put in hard work so as to quench the thirst of desire within you, pursue that which has set your soul on fire.
To be different, to stand out, one needs to strive in ensuring that what you do, has a greater impact than what you say or think in mind. Be you, believe, ablaze your passion within.